The live-in relationships I've attempted haven't turned into the stuff with which fairy tales are made. At this point my question (to me) is how come I've faced situations as these over & over? Like many others I tend to get hurt from relationships. I end up with some bad feelings and the negativity is hard to deal with. I've pondered many of these issues to great lengths.
I think the reason hurt happens more with men (than women) is due to our having a different physiological make-up. Women tend to be feeling & emotional creatures, who need loving.
They need to be appreciated & pampered (some more than others) for the lovely & beautiful creatures. They love hearing how special they are. You can not tell a women too many time that you love everything about them. How they talk, walk & how good they look in the clothes they wear. Even the food they cook, & everything they do you must appreciate. We all need to feel loved. But love is a two way street. With lots of speed traps in between.
In the relationship area women rule. Ah Feelings! Women are structured to feel everything & anything. If we're having a bad day, we don't have to say a word, because our woman can sense it. When things are going great they can pick up on this & we don't have to say anything.
They notice everything! A lot of things which men miss a woman picks up on. Remember each & every man was brought into this world by a woman, his mother. Women comprehend what we are about much more than us.
Since relationships are based upon feelings, and because Women are the masters in the 'feelings' department, it is logical to reason out that women will always have the upper hand when the topic of relationships comes up. We know what we feel, and we are sometimes in tune with our emotional side. But a woman can tune in to your emotional side even when you do not notice it. A women can understand so much about you, and not let on that she knows anything about it. Women can be sneaks & tricksters though, so men must be careful in their dealings with Women. The fact is that this world could not run the way it does, if it weren't for their softness, and nurturing natures, which they apply to all aspects of life. We men get frustrated (at times) and at other times feel very confounded by them. All the same, we're completely fascinated by the species of females. We will be willing to pay good money just to watch them as they prance around and strip down to nothing. We spend a great deal of our time trying to attract and impress females.
We will think about them, often will fight over them, and we wish to be loved by them. It has been proven that men think about women many more times each day than a women does thinking about her man.
I'm Howard Buchin and I welcome your comments and/or questions to my site The Relationship Guru.
Thank you in advance for your input.
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