How to Decide Upon a Safe Partner
I understand I've got to find a life-mate (partner) soon. I wish to feel 'safe' around my special someone. I wish to find a partner who I can open up to without feeling nervous, if perhaps I make a serious disclosure.
I'm hoping there's someone out there who can keep things confidential.
The one problem facing me is deciding who is safe bet, and who is not. How can this be done, since it is mostly a trial and error type of exercise.
In the past I opened up with people (at a club, I joined), and I soon realized how large a mistake I'd made. How can I work out some kind of a strategy for determining who is safe, and who is not safe?
The answer to this one is elusive. I have tried the trial and error approach, and that didn't seem to work. Everyone seems to be nice, at first blush, but then a great number of people turn out to be not so nice after all.
Possibly I need to work out a planned disclosure schedule, where I may disclose one particularly embarrassing fact about myself each month, and just test the waters a little bit.
Yes I was a dishwasher once at the Organ Grinder. Additionally I have been and newspaper delivery boy, for years when I was rather young and then in my early adulthood I restarted my paper route work. If that is too difficult for someone to accept or without making crass comments or jokes, possibly I could go into deeper types of scenarios.
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