Why Validation of Feelings Matter?

We all have feelings and relationships are about feelings.

We feel happy, and then we feel sad.  We feel many different things over the course of

our lifetime.  When we bump into the right person, at the right time, we'll make the

decision to share our thoughts and feelings with that person, in the hope that they will reciprocate.

If the significant other decides not to validate our feelings, then we can be left feeling devalued,

as a person.

WHEN we express ourselves to our particular partner, we need to know if that person cares about

how we feel.

THIS  is just cold hard logical thinking, and it is important that we always remember to

heed the things we are told by our friends, since they are taking the time and energy to tell us about those

things.