When to Act

Knowing when it's time to act.

I wonder sometimes....most of the time

When is it time to pull the plug on your relationship?  Hopefully you never have to face that decision
as many of us have had to do.  When you feel that your physical and mental health is at risk because you've entered into a relationship that is not healthy, and you are not happy.

Some have suggested the use of a blank sheet of paper divided into two sections, one indicating the things that work and the other, the things which are not working.

Once you begin to realize that you are in the wrong relationship, then the sooner that you act the better.  I liken it to taking a long journey and travellng down a long and winding road. The farther you may go, the longer the distance back.  So if this is the case, that means you don't want to go too too far, in case you have set out down the wrong path, since the way back is not easy.

I have travelled some of these long and tremulous pathways throughout my life. At times I've wondered why I chose how I did, and then at other times, I didn't wonder but thanked my lucky stars for landing with that special someone.

It is never too late to find love.  It is never too early to leave a relationship that is only a facade.  MY motto is, that once you come to realize the woman you are with is not the woman that you love, the sooner you get out, the better.

Women wish to be adored and loved for the special beings they are, and if you don't wish to cherish and appreciate every inch of her, then it is better to not go any where near her (it;s is kind of like a No-Fly Zone).