When to Act

Knowing when it's time to act.

I wonder sometimes....most of the time

When is it time to pull the plug on your relationship?  Hopefully you never have to face that decision
as many of us have had to do.  When you feel that your physical and mental health is at risk because you've entered into a relationship that is not healthy, and you are not happy.

Some have suggested the use of a blank sheet of paper divided into two sections, one indicating the things that work and the other, the things which are not working.

Once you begin to realize that you are in the wrong relationship, then the sooner that you act the better.  I liken it to taking a long journey and travellng down a long and winding road. The farther you may go, the longer the distance back.  So if this is the case, that means you don't want to go too too far, in case you have set out down the wrong path, since the way back is not easy.

I have travelled some of these long and tremulous pathways throughout my life. At times I've wondered why I chose how I did, and then at other times, I didn't wonder but thanked my lucky stars for landing with that special someone.

It is never too late to find love.  It is never too early to leave a relationship that is only a facade.  MY motto is, that once you come to realize the woman you are with is not the woman that you love, the sooner you get out, the better.

Women wish to be adored and loved for the special beings they are, and if you don't wish to cherish and appreciate every inch of her, then it is better to not go any where near her (it;s is kind of like a No-Fly Zone).

Relationship Guru 

 

  What is the best thing about Valentine's?

Right now  there is not anything that is the best about Valentine's since I do not have one.  It is nice to reminisce at times and think about some of my past loves and where they might be and so forth.  But then again, there is little point in thinking about them since they are more than likely not thinking about me.

Love is the greatest gift on this earth, but it is also the most elusive.  As soon as you think that you've found it, it can slip through your fingers and it's gone.  One day you can be as happy as pie, and suddenly things can change.  

Love has been a tough one for me.  It seems that as soon as I think that I've found it, something gets in the way, and so forth.

Love has framed both the best and worst times in my life.  The highpoints where I'd met that special someone, and the other times when that person (& I) ended the relationship and we made other plans.

Valentines a wondrous time for many who are involved in a relationship, and for those that are still looking for Love, it can be a sad time, and a time for wishing upon a star, that there will be a special someone who might come along one day.

I don't like to think of the possibility that there is nobody out there for me, or that special someone.  I know she is there but I just have to find her. She has to be there!  I hope she will show up one day.

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August 07 2014

Starting a New Relationship

I wish for everyone to find yourself lucky,
when it comes down to a relationship.

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Relationship Guru

  Howard Buchin

Love equals Happiness. Our only hope is love, and our love should be hopeful for better things to come. 

Let love reign!  

LOVE LIVES HERE!

Pink House

Love Songs
The Relationship Guru -


by Howard S. Buchin

The Relationship Guru....Every love story has soundtrack? What would yours be?

Love is music. If that be so, then would Emitt Rhodes music qualify?
His love of music had him writing, playing, producing and recording these ditties from his house (without accompaniment).  Emitt Rhodes' music communicates that love that he feels for his music. 

Emitt Rhodes